Ways to Comfort a Crying Baby

British Columbia Specific Information

A crying baby can be frustrating for parents and caregivers, especially when it goes on for long periods of time or you do not know the cause. To learn about why your baby might be crying, and for tips on comforting your child, see:

If you have any reason to believe a child's crying is related to possible harm or abuse or you think a child or youth (under 19 years of age) is being abused or neglected, call Child Protection Services at 1-800-663-9122. Child Protection Services in B.C. safeguard children from harm. They have the authority to investigate and take appropriate action to ensure a child's safety. If there is immediate danger, call 9-1-1 or your local emergency number. To learn more, see the Ministry of Children and Family Developmen: Child Protection Services in B.C.

If you are a child or youth and want to talk to someone, call the Helpline for Children toll-free at 310-1234 (no area code needed). You can call at any time of the day or night and you do not have to give your name. Call 1-866-660-0505 for TTY services for those who are hard of hearing. There is no charge to call the operator if you call from a pay phone.

Anyone who has reason to believe that a child has been, or is likely to be, abused or neglected has a legal duty under the Child, Family and Community Service Act to report the matter. Visit Ministry of Children and Family Development - Reporting Child Abuse for more information.

Overview

Babies usually cry for a reason. For example, your baby may be letting you know they're hungry, tired, too hot or cold, or need a diaper change. Over time, you'll learn the difference in your baby's cries. Then you can take care of your baby's needs, and the crying will usually stop.

Some babies have a fussy time of day. This is often in the late afternoon to early evening. Try to give your baby extra attention during these crying periods. It may also help to limit visitors and activity.

To soothe a crying baby:

  • Change your baby's diaper if the diaper is dirty or wet.
  • Feed your baby if you think your baby is hungry. Try burping your baby.
  • Change your baby's clothes if you think your baby may be too cold or too warm.
  • Hold your baby close to your body. Try putting your baby in a front pack while you're doing chores. Or rock and sing to your baby.

In rare cases, crying may point to a serious illness or injury. This type of crying usually lasts much longer than normal, and your baby may not act normally. Call your doctor if you're concerned your baby's crying isn't normal.

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Adaptation Date: 9/15/2023

Adapted By: HealthLink BC

Adaptation Reviewed By: HealthLink BC