At this age, your toddler likely enjoys cuddling and openly showing you affection - and playing with others is getting easier. Learn what else you can expect between 30 and 36 months
Use social language, such as "please," "thank you" and "bye-bye"
Play with others
Play make believe games and creates imaginary characters
Get upset with major changes in routines
Know and respond to other people's feelings
Become more comfortable with new people
Want to do things independently, but may fear new experiences
Want approval and praise
Play and activity
Your toddler is continuing to take great strides socially and emotionally. Nurture that growth by introducing your toddler to familiar neighbours and others in your community. Shower your toddler with affectionate hugs and loving words. Praise good behaviour with clear language. Instead of saying "good girl," or "good boy," say, "Sharing your teddy with Kim was very kind."
Here are some more tips for supporting your child's social and emotional development:
Provide opportunities to play with other children
Encourage your toddler to wash, dress and feed dolls or other toys to teach caring for others
Encourage imaginary play. Join in with questions: "Is the tea ready?"
Stay nearby to help your toddler solve problems while playing with other children. Make sure a trusted adult is always close by when children are playing
Continue to breastfeed
Praise your toddler's new skills and when she does something without help
Accept your toddler's feelings and talk about them
Give and use words for feelings: "disappointed," "hurt," "thrilled," "excited.”
Talk very simply about your own feelings as examples
Listen to and understand your toddler's fears
Sing songs and read stories about emotions. Talk about the feelings of a story's characters and ask your toddler why the characters might feel that way
Other social and emotional milestones
Between 30 and 36 months your toddler may also:
Copy adult behaviours, such as shopping, banking, parenting, breastfeeding, or cooking
Create an imaginary friend to talk to
Be more comfortable around new adults
Help other children do things
Develop skills such as taking turns, sharing, and using words instead of fighting
Explain his feelings when asked about them
Understand the feelings of other children and talk about them
Stamp her feet when frustrated
Ask you to tell certain stories to help deal with fears
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